on growing up
December 29, 2011
It was one of those days when you realize you're growing up but you can't do anything about it. And maybe that's a good thing.
A few of my high school girlfriends got together at Sara's after Christmas just to catch up. For the most part, we all went to different colleges and we live all over California (and now Arizona) so it's easy to get caught up in the current everyday. Work, school or whatever gets in the way so reuniting and just being together again is perfect.
And then you find out that one of your girlfriends just got engaged on Christmas Eve!!! We're all talking casually when Emily says, "So. I got a really great present for Christmas," and puts her new ring on. (And we squeal in excitement/delight, of course).
So even though we'll go weeks without talking to one another, I'll always cherish little moments like this-- that Emily waited to tell us in person. I didn't see it on my facebook news feed and I didn't hear it from anyone else.
Of course, this also means that we're getting older. We're growing up. It's a little intimidating but I can manage small steps.
Just add a few hours of conversation and Christmas leftovers and let me reminisce about that Monday afternoon.